How-to-Pray

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Remember the following two truth’s from our beloved Scriptures!

Ye shall NOT ADD TO THE WORD which I command you, NEITHER SHALL YE DIMINISH FROM IT, that ye may keep the commandments of יְהוָה אֱלֹהֵיכֶם - the LORD your Eloleichem, which I command you”. Davarim - Deuteronomy 4:2. (JPS-1917).

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“How to Pray”

With Rabbi, Dr. Reuven Ben Avraham-Goossens, PhD.

 

“O יְהוָה - the LORD, let Your ear be attentive to the prayer of this your servant, and to the prayer of your servants who delight in revering Your Name.” Nechemyah - Nehemiah 1: 11.

The aim of this page and site is to encourage fellow Hebrews, especially our younger ones, and possibly those that may have fallen away from their attendance to the Synagogue and prayers, etc, to grow back unto our wonderful faith. Therefore this page is all about תְּפִלָּה - Tefeelah’s - Prayers, but if your Hebrew is worse than rusty, please do NOT worry!

You may ask: “Do I have to say all the prayers in the Siddur and do I have to say them all in Hebrew?”

99.9% of Rabbis will answer as follows: That is an important question … “How should you pray”? “You should take your Siddur and say all the required prayers, three times a day, on weekdays, Shabbat, the Yom Tovim (feasts), and yes, you must say them in Ivrit (in Hebrew)”.

Although that is all very good, but sadly there are a good many other important elements to prayer, which we really should understand.

1… Prayer should a personal time for us to praise and thank יְהוָה אֱלֹהֵינוּ – the LORD our Elohim, blessed be His Sanctified Name, “with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your being.” Davarim - Deuteronomy 6:5.

2… Our prayer is personal, although it is also a collective prayer that we pray with, and for all Israel.

3… Our prayer should be acceptable unto אֱלֹהִים - Elohim; and it should be an offering unto the Almighty. Our prayer should be “like a sweet aroma” unto אֱלֹהִים - Elohim, blessed be He.

4… We must, and should understand every single word we say in prayer.

You might ask, “Is this not what we Hebrews (and I do mean men and women) do in the Synagogue, or at home?” Let us look at that question.

Whilst in the Synagogue have we not seen those rabbis and those who are so very proficient in Ivrit, Davening (praying) at a massively great speed?

I personally ask the question, “Is it possible for these prayers to be said at a ridiculous speed, is that with all our heart, and all our soul, and with all our being”? My answer is, “It is impossible for us to pray with a full comprehension at the speed Rabbis and others tend to say them”? It is my firm belief that each word of our prayer should be said unto the Almighty, blessed be He, in love, with complete comprehension. Only then our prayers unto Elohim, blessed be He, will be “like a sweet aroma”. I have often asked, “Why are prayers said at the speed of lightening”? Rabbis have answered, “Because there are so many prayers to be said in the Siddur, as it is part of the order of the service”. Well excuse me, who created the service, it was the Kabalistic rabbis of yesteryear, and they continued to add and add more and more. That is why prayers in the Synagogue are so fast the they are more like “habitual prayers”, and are said, you might say, without a heart or any meaning whatsoever!

Thus, it is called liturgy, liturgy that must be said and completed by the end of the service. This ideology seems to be set in concrete, and it just has to be done no matter what.

Before continuing, it has to be said, that amongst many Hebrews, there is a great love for the Almighty, and their intention is certainly to Daven with good intention, wishing to please the Almighty!

We the House of Israel should pray and praise אֱלֹהִים - Elohim, blessed be He, by saying our prayers with conviction and from the heart. These are meaningful prayers that bring a joy to our heart, because we will know that we have pleased our beloved אֱלֹהִים - Elohim! As I have said, the words we utter MUST be with full understanding. No man can do this by Davening at speed we witness in the Synagogue. I am well aware that I will be criticized by the Rabbis, but then for them ‘tradition’ is more important than faith and following the Words of יְהוָה אֱלֹהֶיךָ – the LORD our Elohim, blessed be His Sanctified Name.

For those not proficient in Hebrew, it is better to reduce some of the prayers that are found in the Siddur, whilst praying at home or in the Synagogue. Why? You will be able to say your prayers with heartfelt meaning and understanding, and we know that men, yes rabbis composed almost all of the prayers found in the Siddur. Thus, well-meaning rabbi after rabbi continued to add prayers over the centuries. Undoubtedly, many of these prayers are a delight and are indeed very beautiful. But we have seen that the Siddur has grown so much, that rabbinic prayers have overburdened the daily prayer cycle. I believe, because of the massive number of prayers, it will reduce the actual time we are able to spend reading and studying the blessed Torah, which must always come first!

I wrote on the inside the cover of my Siddur back in the 1960’s the following, “The More Torah, the More Life, for Elohim, blessed be He, is our Life!” Indeed, we must always Daven first and say the appropriate blessings before commencing our meals, reading/studying the Torah, etc, in this way our minds will be prepared to understand what אֱלֹהִים - Elohim, blessed be He, is saying to us through His Word!

What of “prayer” … “reading the Torah” and “going to work”. How can we analyse these three important aspects of our daily life?

A wonderful fellow rabbi once made the following three statements to me …

1… Prayer represents blessings, thus likened to being in the Land of Israel. True!

2… Reading the Torah is likened to being in Mitzraim (Egypt). A horrid Lie!

3… Going to work is likened as to being in the wilderness. Needs explaining.

Let me state that his second concept is simply not acceptable and nothing short from being wicked. Let me go through the three points above as follows.

1… Davening - (reciting the prescribed liturgical prayers), and praising יְהוָה אֱלֹהֵינוּ - the LORD our Elohim, blessed be His Sanctified Name, is indeed likened to a “blessing” and being in the land given unto our father Avraham and his “seed forever”.

2… However, our time immersed in the Torah, is likened to being in the very presence of the Almighty, blessed be He, as we cannot separate the Almighty from the Torah, or the Torah from Him, for the Torah is the way the Almighty communicates with us, teaching us how to live! Therefore, it should, and must not be likened as to being in Mitzraim (Egypt), for Mitzraim became the place of great hardship for our people. It was an evil and a pagan land and sadly many of our people fell and followed pagan gods and they had to be saved. Thus the Almighty, blessed be He, used His beloved Moshe to rescue us from that evil land which it had become. The Torah represents deliverance, both from bondage and from sin, which gives us good reason to worship יְהוָה אֱלֹהֵינוּ - the LORD our Elohim, blessed be His Sanctified Name!

3… Our labour could be possibly likened to a time in the wilderness, but whilst there, we must uphold all Torah principles, as יְהוָה - the LORD , blessed be He, has instructed us. We do this in order to give honour to our אֱלֹהִים - Elohim and to represent the Hebrew people honourably throughout the Gentile world, thus making our place of work an haven

My thoughts, as I have stated earlier, does not diminish the love and honour most Hebrews pray, for obviously their intention is to do the will of the Almighty. My only concern is the number of prayers we find in the Siddur today, which the many rabbis have added, and added and added to the point, they are read at such a speed in our Synagogues’, that they have become meaningless. If fact Davening in Shul is today nothing more that a super fast babbling, and is completely meaningless, as there is no heart in it! Having done so, rabbis have made it almost impossible for many of the average Hebrews, especially those with limited Hebrew, to pray “with all their heart, with all their soul, and with all their being” not fully knowing or understanding what is being said unto their Elohim. It is fine for those who spend their days in the Synagogue and at Yeshiva; most of these men spend most of their lives studying books written entirely by men being the Talmudic, and read very little Torah, or the rest of the precious Tanakh, containing all our history as given to us by אֱלֹהִים - Elohim, through His chosen Nevi’im - Prophets. Yet these men also do not go to work as they spend all their time studying Talmud.

Thus, considering the above, please slow down when in prayer, and select the prayers that you are able to say, and if at the Synagogue, you do not have to keep up with the service for the Almighty will love every prayer you say with all your heart and soul! I believe that one single prayer said in complete love, is a prayer that is more acceptable, and worth far more than the entire Siddur service at the Synagogue, which is more like a race saying a huge portion of a Siddur said in a hurry.

ENGLISH or HEBREW?

Of course, feel free to say them in English, if your Hebrew is limited, for believe me יְהוָה אֱלֹהֵינוּ - the LORD our Elohim, blessed be His Sanctified Name, understands all languages! However, please try to use some Hebrew, especially when saying the “Shema Yisroel”. You will find that I have it online in Ivrit - Hebrew, and a useful Transliteration and of course in English. Also, from your Jewish bookstores there are English, Hebrew Prayer Books available, thus, you can pray as you are able, for it is vital that you fully know and understand every single word you offer unto אֱלֹהִים יְהוָה - the LORD Elohim, blessed be His Sanctified Name!

I trust that I have assisted you in becoming a better Hebrew, and helping you with your prayer life?

May Elohim bless and keep you in the palm of His ever loving hands!

“Let my prayer be set forth as incense before Thee, the lifting up of my hands as the evening sacrifice”. Tehillim - Psalms 141:2.

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This site was originally created, for those who desired to return to our blessed and wonderful faith. Thus be wise and work on your faith and pray at least two or three times a day (if possible) and always seek our beloved אֱלֹהִים - Elohim’s guidance, for His love is always with us, especially when we seek Him, blessed be He! However this site has become very much a teaching site with hundreds of studies!

Remember what אֱלֹהִים - Elohim, blessed be He, said the following via several of our prophets...

Return unto Me, and I will return unto you, saith צְבָאוֹת- יְהוָה- the LORD of hosts”. Mal’a’chi - Malachi 3:7. (JPS).

And Remember ...

Enjoy your Sabbath Rest, Shabbat Shalom!

אֲנִי יְהוָה אֱלֹהֵיכֶם, בְּחֻקּוֹתַי לֵכוּ; וְאֶת-מִשְׁפָּטַי שִׁמְרוּ, וַעֲשׂוּ אוֹתָם

וְאֶת-שַׁבְּתוֹתַי, קַדֵּשׁוּ; וְהָיוּ לְאוֹת, בֵּינִי וּבֵינֵיכֶם-לָדַעַת, כִּי אֲנִי יְהוָה אֱלֹהֵיכֶם

“I am אֱלֹהֵיכֶם יְהוָה - the LORD your Eloheichem; walk in My statutes, and keep Mine ordinances, and do them; and hallow My Sabbaths, and they shall be a sign between Me and you, that ye may know that I am אֱלֹהֵיכֶם יְהוָה - the LORD your Eloheichem”. Yechezkel - Ezekiel 20:19-20. (JPS).

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“Hebraic Studies” motto is as follows;

“The More Torah, the More Life”

For אֱלֹהִים יְהוָה - the LORD Elohim, Blessed be His Sanctified Name,

He is the one who gave us our Life!

May the שָׁלוֹם - Shalom = Peace of צְבָאוֹת- יְהוָה= the LORD of hosts. be with you, and please always uphold our blessed שַׁבָּת - Shabbat, as well as the מוֹעֲדִים - Mo’a’dim - Feasts, and continue saying your daily תְּפִלָּה - Tefeelah’s (Prayers) and regular בְּרָכָה - Be’ra’chah’s (blessings) before food and drinks, etc!

שָׁלוֹם עֲלֵיכֶם - Shalom Aleichem - Peace be with you!

Rabbi, Dr. Reuven Ben Avraham-Goossens, PhD.

 

 

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